Well, today I haven't got anythin in mind to write about, but I have been thinking and I decided that I'll post everyday, although it is just a line.
I can think about a million topics I would like to write about, but I havent planned anything, so I don't want to write something really bad and then regret it.
There is a question on my mind. Yesterday I wrote about feelings and how hard it is for some people to show them. But what's up when you show a feeling and then you feel the opposite?
I don't know.
Someone told me his/her feelings a few days before, and not he/she shows another ones, opposite ones... but she/he is not brave enough to say "sorry, I was wrong" or "I changed my mind about it" or just tell me the feelings and I get the meaning by myself. Sometimes it is black and then next minute it is white, but when I ask "is it black or white?" all I get is "ssshhh, don't worry". What? Don't worry? I DO worry: you say something, you show another one, then you get quiet, then you pretend nothing happened... what is all this about? I don't know.
Isn't it better to be honest? things can change and everyone makes mistakes, so wouldn't be easier just to be honest about it all?
Listening: Katy Perry - Hot n Cold
Mood: Calmed and confused
Doing: Trying to study American culture
Showing posts with label why?. Show all posts
Showing posts with label why?. Show all posts
18/08/2009
17/08/2009
Why is it so hard to show our feelings?
This is something I have been asking myself during ages.
It's amazing how things can go wrong because we don't show our feelings to the people around us. I don't only mean saying our feelings directly but showing them in any way. For example, to show love you don't need to say "I love you", you can kiss the person you love, hug that person or just look at the other's eyes. It seems so simple while I type here, but the truth is that it is not so simple for everyone. Why? I don't know.
But it is not only about love. It is about every feeling. Sometimes we miss a person like mad but we don't find the moment or we are not brave enough to take the phone and just say: "I miss you".
I think the world, or at least the personal relationships, could be better if we show our feelings.
Don't you know someone that has lost his/her love because they don't say "I love you" to the other? Don't you know someone that regrets not saying "I'll miss you" before someone died? Don't you know someone who regrets not holding someone's hand just because she/he "didn't find the right moment?
I think we should say these kind of things every day, like if tomorrow we weren't going to have the chance to do it.
Life is too short to be hiding feelings, and more when we can lose the opportunity to show them and never have it again.
It's amazing how things can go wrong because we don't show our feelings to the people around us. I don't only mean saying our feelings directly but showing them in any way. For example, to show love you don't need to say "I love you", you can kiss the person you love, hug that person or just look at the other's eyes. It seems so simple while I type here, but the truth is that it is not so simple for everyone. Why? I don't know.
But it is not only about love. It is about every feeling. Sometimes we miss a person like mad but we don't find the moment or we are not brave enough to take the phone and just say: "I miss you".
I think the world, or at least the personal relationships, could be better if we show our feelings.
Don't you know someone that has lost his/her love because they don't say "I love you" to the other? Don't you know someone that regrets not saying "I'll miss you" before someone died? Don't you know someone who regrets not holding someone's hand just because she/he "didn't find the right moment?
I think we should say these kind of things every day, like if tomorrow we weren't going to have the chance to do it.
Life is too short to be hiding feelings, and more when we can lose the opportunity to show them and never have it again.
16/08/2009
The beginning
Everything has a beginning and this is the beginning of this blog.
The song I posted before by the Beatles is a meaning of the title of the blog.
I am a 20ish years old girl that doesn't feel like fitting in this world.
I think there is so much to change, so much to improve, so I'll post my thoughts here to see if there is someone sharing them, to see if i can change not the world but at least some thoughts in people.
I don't try to persuade anyone, I just try to express my point of view and discuss it.
Thanks for reading and feel free to comment whatever.
The song I posted before by the Beatles is a meaning of the title of the blog.
I am a 20ish years old girl that doesn't feel like fitting in this world.
I think there is so much to change, so much to improve, so I'll post my thoughts here to see if there is someone sharing them, to see if i can change not the world but at least some thoughts in people.
I don't try to persuade anyone, I just try to express my point of view and discuss it.
Thanks for reading and feel free to comment whatever.
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